I need a gpu that can game at 1080p 144hz at all/most settings maxed out, but i can't find the right card and i need some advice.Also the build is kinda like "Aorus" themed, so if the card has black, orange and/or silver in it then thats even better!
Well if you want a graphics card that is able to run most games then I would recommend you gtting maybe at least a GTX 1060. I am not quite good with AMD graphics cards so I cannot help you right here. Since you want a graphics card that is able to get like 144 FPS (in order to get advantage of 144hz monitors) a GTX 1060 will do it's job and even if it's getting like 100 FPS on a game it wouldn't be so bad it turning the graphic settings lower.
However make sure whether you want to upgrade into a 1440p monitor because those monitors require more power than 1080p monitors and so you need a better graphics card.
I didn't say that I recommend a GTX 1060 but rather "at least" if wanting to have some big FPS numbers. Out of my experience I have a GTX 1660Ti and it is doing really great however it always depends on other parts aswell and the game itself.
Based on my experiences with triple A title graphical demands, you're looking at getting a gtx 1080 or RTX 2070 at a bare minimum. If you expect longevity of 5+ years before a graphics card upgrade, that hardware demand can easily increase to a GTX 1080 ti/RTX 2080. If you don't believe me, watch Metro Exodus on ultra via YouTube, which has an insane graphical performance demand. A few years ago I would state the above hardware is insane overkill, however this is to attempt to factor in future triple A title demands.
This is all assuming you have an adequate processor. What processor do you have or plan to have?