The 3-4 pin plugs are for the fans. The case power button is plugged in at the very bottom of the motherboard, usually a box with 9 pins, sometimes one with 2x 9 pins. The case LED is also plugged in there.
If you had the manual, you wouldn't have this problem
Now the model of the motherboard is always written somewhere on it, try to find it and google the model. You might find a digital copy of the manual online. Or you can try your luck and try out every combination with these 9 pins because I don't know which 2 of the 9 pins you need (that's written in the manual).