OP - 8GB at 1066 is a lot of stress for any memory controller. You may well be forced to settle for 800Mhz, and maybe tighten the timings.
Bottom line, tho - Probably the best place to ask for mobo's and settings would be the forum at Corsair. The 'Ramguy' has connections with Corsair's engineers, some of the forum denizens there are pretty good, too.
I have some fairly premium components (a DFI LanParty P35 T2R), and have 8GB running at DDR2 800, 4-4-4-12, on a mild~ish overclock (8 multi, 400FSB for 3.2Ghz), and according to OCZ, that's pretty close to the best one could reliably expect to achieve with the components I have.
Some things you can try:
MANUALLY set your voltages to the upper range for your RAM. MANUALLY set the timings. If you have a voltage drop control - enable it. Ensure the command rate is set to 2T, and that tRFC ("Refresh to activate delay") is 54 or greater.
If that doesn't work, you may need to raise the voltage to your FSB A Couple Steps, but no more. If you have to crank this up, go back and see what else could be at fault.