The problem is, that did happen. But the outcome was 'wait for the next release' followed by a release that did not fix the bugs.
The social media spat was after the normal avenues of communication came up empty, and as aa result of basically "if you're not going to bother fixing it, then give us the code so we can fix it ourselves".
I think that exposed a deep flaw in Tiny's business plan. They decided to take a product (AMD's gaming GPUs), which hadn't previously been used for serious AI training, and use them to undercut the other solutions on the market. It was naive to think there wouldn't be any technical hurdles encountered, or that they could all be cleared within the aggressive timeline of a typical startup. Especially if they hadn't previously gotten AMD on board with their plan and committed to devoting extra resources, from the outset.
I'm actually less critical of what Tiny/Hotz did after that, because it's unsurprising to see desperate people do reckless things. At this point, my criticism switches to how AMD handled it. Not only did they essentially do everything that Tiny asked, but it didn't even make a difference, in the end. It was infeasible for AMD to open source its MES firmware on a timescale that was meaningful to Tiny, if you look at everything involved in doing something like that, which is yet another reason why it was silly for them to cave to this demand.
AMD may have considered Tiny Corp to be too small to be worth dedicating resources to,
How do you know they didn't? From the sound of it, AMD absolutely
did have people working on the issues Tiny raised! Bugs cannot be fixed on a deterministic timescale. Bugs involving hardware & firmware are some of the most tricky. The mere fact that AMD didn't get all of the bugs fixed when Tiny demanded doesn't mean nobody was working on them. Hotz and AMD both referred to meetings they had and work that AMD did to try and address Tiny's issues. However, due to your obvious bias, you completely ignore all of that, because it doesn't suit your narrative.
a previously anyone-but-Nvidia supplier now offering an Nvidia solution as the explicitly 'it's more expensive, but at least it works' option.
That's not correct. They went to market with both solutions on offer, after bypassing MES. Of course, after all the noise they made, they had to downplay the AMD-based solution.
If a company that explicitly wanted to use your cards have to start a public slapfight just to get not even support,
You're really buying into Hotz' exaggerated narrative, and then you're exaggerating it even on top of what even he said!
This just shows why it was a lost cause for AMD ever to engage with someone like Hotz. There's no upside for them, and engaging him only brings more attention and appearance of legitimacy to his position. Furthermore, it sounds like whatever happened with this whole affair, you'd find some way to trash AMD for it. At first, I thought you had just gotten caught up in the drama of the whole affair, but I can now see that your anti-AMD hate runs deeper than that.