Everyone lies to there parents, Rcpilot i don't mean this as an insult but i am positive your children have and will lie to you.
I won't disagree with you on that. My sons are 28 & 30. So I've heard some of the stuff they fudged on growing up. You know what though, It was petty stuff. I've always been able to trust my sons words & been able to look them in the eye, & defend them. I know there good men.
Having said that, if I was confronted with something like this that my sons did, perpetrated by them, you can bet your bottom dollar it would have been handled by me in a fashion that they would never forget. They would have lost the confidence of me, their Father. It is far better to admit your mistakes as a man & then go on from there, than loose the confidence of your Father. I can only look at it from my perspective.
I'm sure that his Father isn't that bad of guy that he needs to be lied to. I also would imagine that his Father already knows just about what happened as well. He wasn't born yesterday. So he can choose to dig his hole deeper as far as I'm concerned.
Another thing I found after me Dad died. You can't take back the things you did when you were young & stupid. I'd give anything I have, just to be able to talk to my Dad again. So that's why I said what I did.
I know that there's a lot of youngsters that have way to much freedom on the forum around here, knowledgeable or not. Are we supposed to condone being less that honest & forthright with them, than we are with people in everyday life? I do not believe so.
I'm not going to make a big stink & go on forever about it. As far as I'm concerned its over. I said the right thing in this instance & I'll say no more. I wouldn't bother the guy in any other way, ever.
BTW I'm not insulted in the least. I can only say what I believe in. Having been there & done that, by raising my 2 sons to manhood!
Well, I didn't think that was gonna happen!!!