My main computers all use an Optane OS drive to this day. ... This technology should have never died.
Here's the thing about that. Intel sold off all their SSD assets to SK Hynix,
except for Optane, which they just killed instead. SK Hynix is a NAND maker with its own fabs. If 3D XPoint were truly a viable technology, going forward, I'm sure they would've taken those assets as well. I expect Intel would've sold them for a song, given the alternative was simply taking a total loss on it.
According to what I read, Optane was
never profitable for Intel. More worryingly, it seemed unable to keep pace with density and cost reductions happening in both NAND and DRAM. While Optane performs much better than NAND, it's a couple order of magnitudes slower than DRAM and many orders worse than DRAM on endurance. So, it was caught in this weird niche and basically being squeezed from all sides.
I think
@JRStern is also right about it having a problem with write efficiency, which could be a concern for datacenters and mobile applications.
I also looked into cold storage data retention and found that it seems even worse at that than NAND, which is quite the opposite of what I was hoping or expecting.
P.S. I'm not a hater, as I did snap up a P5800X when Optane was end-of-life'd. Turns out, I should've waited to buy it. Ebay currently has some new, Dell rebadged drives selling for less than half what I paid (including from well-rated US sellers). Anything above 400 GB is way overpriced, though.