Let's see. 860 out performs 930 @ stock speeds. 860 is 95w tdp vs 130w tdp. 860 runs cooler, overclocks easier, costs less, has more agressive turbo boost.
I'm sorry how exactly is 860 a waste?
Oh, upgradeability, and 8x/8x...
1156 supports 16x/16x if you pay for a premium mobo, and it'd still be cheaper than 1366.
Upgradeability? Sandybridge?
1366 is a waste.