Easy(er) to use approach: der8auer direct die frames
https://www.caseking.de/en/cat/index/sCategory/69
This frame will replace the original retention arm and plate from the motherboard socket and will sit lower than the die itself, so any flat cpu cooler will work on this frame. But still the cooler mount arms must be a bit higher than standard to make up for the IHS difference in height.
DIY approach:
For intel LGA socket you need something on the cpu package to push down the cpu onto the MB pins, and those are the nubs of the IHS, so you need to improvise that (as said, i'd mill the center of the original IHS (or similar family and socket) to retain the original tabs for proper mounting in the socket.
The next problem is the cooler as it will have to have a protruding part the size of the die in the center. Here is the problem: adding a thicker thermal pad defeats the purpose of delid/direct die as the thermal pad is likely worse than original IHS. Adding another sheet of copper on the bottom of the heatsink to make up for the recess of the die also defeats the purpose since it's another layer with thermal compound, just like the IHS.
So the only real benefit you can get is with a purpose built direct die cooler with small footprint to contact the die and not the surrounding frame. (or by milling the base of an existing cooler to match the recess and not cutting into heatpipes or water canals for waterblocks)
Also the cooler mount must be higher as it will sit lower without IHS so any plastic pins mount system is not applicable. you need screw mount that can be adjustable in height, and make sure the arms of the cooler don't bottom out on the motherboard first.
why not go with delid/liquid metal relid/lapping 1st and then investigate the direct die cooling?