Whoa, easy big guy. This is not a 24/7 help line. People volunteer here and we do have normal lives. Breathe, relax. We'll come back to you.
There is also no need to PM people. Info in the PM should be here so everyone can see that info. I'll be honest, I just woke up from a nap. I might miss something in your PM that someone more awake might get. Keep the posts here so everyone can see it and all the info is in one place.
my budget is 1000-1250 including the monitor if I need a little more please let me know I might be able to 1500 or more buts that like in 3 months
This is the part my sleepy brain picked up on. I hate to tell you, but what you want isn't possible. According to Benq's website that monitor is $500. That leaves you with only $700+ to buy everything else. That used to be possible, but GPU prices have spiked and show no sign of coming down. Any card that could hit 240FPS at 1080 is over $1k now. You'll need to spend $2k or more NOT counting the monitor to do what you want.