If I just buy another hard drive and try ot load windows into that, will this drive still be usable?
Of course it will, assuming it isn't broken. If it recognizes the drive, it's most likely not broken, although it is possible it has bad sectors on it. That could be causing your problems, potentially, but I have a hunch the drive is fine.
Thus, why not buy a smaller capacity drive (raptor maybe?) to boot windows onto and still use this drive as storage for most of my sh*t?
If you want to spend the extra cash on a Raptor or two, go right ahead. Not necessary, but it will be faster. Some people will tell you to get another drive and stripe RAID them, others will tell you Raptor. I think you should do whatever you feel comfortable buying and using.
Is this necessary or do you think that this drive will eventually work? isn't it true that some dirves, for whatever reason, just do't agree with certain mobo's?
As I said above, the drive should be fine. I've heard of problems between this hard drive maker and this chipset, but they're usually on an individual basis. I'm sure you won't have a problem like that. I believe it was Maxtor and nForce controllers, but I think that problem has been fixed by flashing the firmware of the drive. You shouldn't have to do that.
Lastly, If I have an external drive, could I install windows onto that and then use it as my boot drive?
The only OS I know that lets you install it to an external drive is Linux, and only then because of the kernel's versatility. Windows and MacOS X do not let you install to a USB or FireWire drive, flash or otherwise.
or could I even use it as my boot drive initially then move windows over later (I will probably be using this drive anyway, why not make it my boot drive?) It is even possible to have a USB drive as your boot drive?
No, for the reasons I said above.
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