Just out of curiosity. I see traces on motherboards mere millimeters from mounting holes and am wondering if such a layout increases the risk of damge from forces imparted on the board from CPU coolers.
You see the surface traces. What you don't see is the subsurface traces in the pcb layers. These generally will include a ground plate, hot plates for easier voltage transmission.
And no, motherboards are designed around push-pin cooler mount abuse, and cooler compression abuse, so mm of clearance is fine.
And the Deepcool Assassin III comes in at a whopping 1460g (3.22 lbs) and is fine on motherboards. They will all have backing plates, which spread the weight over the 4x mounts. The weight of the cooler is pulling outwards on the backing plate, that's what supports the cooler, not the motherboard. Just like putting a nail through drywall into a stud, no damage to the drywall unless the nail bends, and it takes a lot more than just over 3lbs to bend the mounting plate or screws.
If you hold 50lbs close to your body, you'll get the full 50lbs added to your weight, and your feet will feel it. You hold that 50lbs at full arms length, that 50lbs sees very little actual weight added to your feet.
mmm....so where does that mass (weight) go? it can't just disappear. In reality, when extended outward it's exerting a much greater torque against the base of the socket. To use your analogy: the 50 lb weight held close to your body (1 foot) exerts 50 foot/lbs of torque against the shoulder while extending it out to two feet it's now exerting 100 ft/lbs of torque against the shoulder: it increases with no change in mass. But if standing on a scale, there can be no change in weight since total mass (body + weight) didn't change.
That used to be a problem in the early days of huge tower heatsinks. But modern designs are both lighter (less use of copper) and as well the large backplates used spread the forces over a large area. I would trust any Noctua design as they're well engineered and very reliable. An NH-U9S may seem large and heavy but it's actually quite small and lightweight compare to their NH-D15, with two 140MM fans mounted to two towers. Those heatsinks are regularly suspended.... cantilevered actually...on CPU sockets and have been for close to a decade now.This is what I was thinking. Hold 50lbs of weight at arms length vs closer to the body is much harder on the muscles precisely because of this force. I can see this leverage action pushing the heatsink toward the board.
What about a cooler with a back plate such as a Noctua NH-U9S? It weighs over a pound. Looking at the traces on an Asus B560M which is the board I just purchased, it's hard to imaging that not impacting the traces somehow. My older Asrock had what looked like some sort of reinforcement at the mount points for the cooler and some distance to the traces. The Asus just has holes.