Most ram has lifetime warranties and all seem to be good.
I second the assertion that fancy heat spreaders are mostly marketing.
They might be useful if you are a competitive ram overclocker.
Mostly, they hurt by interfering with air coolers.
From a performance point of view, faster specs do not seem to help real app or fps performance.
That is because higher speeds require higher latencies, negating most of the speed advantage.
Here is a good article on haswell ram scaling:
http://www.anandtech.com/show/7364/memory-scaling-on-haswell
My recommendations:
1. Buy enough. for most 2 x 4gb is ok, but why not get 2 x 8gb if you can afford it.
2. Buy 1.5v ram, DDR3 1866 at most.
3. Favor lower latencies.
If you will use amd cpu's or integrated graphics, faster ram will help.