As someone who owns an EVGA 9500 GT, lemme tell ya. It plays Crysis. Okay. It plays SC2. Well. It plays Bulletstorm (okay, okay, the demo), and CoD 2, 4, 5, and 6. Haven't put Black Ops on there yet. I have 4 gigs of RAM, DDR2, 667 mhz, a 2.93 Core 2 Duo, and some kickass fans. I can play all the games I really want to, at an okay graphics level. All you elitists with Core i7s, and the latest hardware which costs more than my entire computer did, for a single chip, I respect you, but it's not that shabby of a card.
Now that I'm done with that... Get a different card if you can. They weren't wrong that it isn't worth the money. I did a "custom" build on CyberpowerPC, but if you're building it yourself, get a higher card. 5770 is better. But yes, you can play those games on this card with a good CPU and some RAM.