I am also interested in this. I understand that SLI 570s will be better than a single 580, but where does VRAM come into play?
I am contemplating either getting a 2nd 570 classified or sell it and get a 580 classified 3gb. I noticed in the bf3 beta that I was maxing out my VRAM, but I don't know if I was noticing it due to the bugginess of the beta. When you hit the VRAM wall on a 570 classified 1280 mb (not exact), what should happen? Will the 580s extra VRAM be noticeable?
I would like to play at a 1920x1200 res with some sort of AA on.