A bit of context to the situation: Lately anytime I try and connect to an online server for a game, my ping will be start spiking up after only a few seconds of joining the server. It stays in the 100-200ms range for a few moments, comes back down to what it should be, then spikes right back. This happens consistently no matter how much bandwidth is actually being used up. It doesn't matter if it's 4 in the afternoon or 4 in the morning, I simply can't get decent ping when trying to play online. So I dropped 50$ on a TP-Link AC1750 router because surely having my own private connection would fix the problem right? Sadly no, which leads me to believe the issue is with how our modem or whatever internet adapter we have.
Now it's worth noting I still live with my parents so I have very little knowledge as to how our internet and everything is set up. My dad has made it clear he has no interest in helping me with this issue since it doesn't affect him, which also makes contacting our ISP directly (charter spectrum) not an option. I've already done a malware scan and found nothing, and restarting the router only fixes the issue for at most 5 minutes. I've actually dealt with ping spikes for years now, but it's been fairly bearable up until now. I'm basically lost with what to do, and general "ping spike" fixes don't seem to do anything. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.
Command prompt after pinging google: View: https://imgur.com/3y8s3aZ
Ping tests: View: https://imgur.com/dvFtRIT
Now it's worth noting I still live with my parents so I have very little knowledge as to how our internet and everything is set up. My dad has made it clear he has no interest in helping me with this issue since it doesn't affect him, which also makes contacting our ISP directly (charter spectrum) not an option. I've already done a malware scan and found nothing, and restarting the router only fixes the issue for at most 5 minutes. I've actually dealt with ping spikes for years now, but it's been fairly bearable up until now. I'm basically lost with what to do, and general "ping spike" fixes don't seem to do anything. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.
Command prompt after pinging google: View: https://imgur.com/3y8s3aZ
Ping tests: View: https://imgur.com/dvFtRIT