Question New PC - - - are these temps okay ?

We're going to need more context. Please list the specs to your build like so:
CPU:
CPU cooler:
Motherboard:
Ram:
SSD/HDD:
GPU:
PSU:
Chassis:
OS:
Monitor:
include the age of the PSU apart from it's make and model. BIOS version for your motherboard at this moment of time. How is the AIO mounted in your chassis? Ambient room air temps?

idle just have google chrome and discord open
Type Control Panel in Start>Hardware and Sound>Power Options>Here, what Plan are you on?
 
At those temps all fans should be at minimum and some even 0 rpm if possible. GPU has that option for sure.
It's not good to set rpm for all from same source of temperature as all would react at same time with unnecessary noise.
Set CPU cooler to react at CPU temps, GPU at GPU temps and if possible bottom fans at same time. Case fans to temps from chipset or VRM.
Speed curves for each group. Minimum or 0 rpm at idle and maximum rpm at highest allowable temperature for each element. Straight line between minimum and maximum is good enough.
at same timeSo I found the loudness is at the fan connectors on performance mode. Although the source temp for all 3 is liquid should I change them to cpu or gpu?
 
Those temps are idle with only having nzxt cam open and discord and yes all fans are sent to cpu temps everything is
That's far from optimal. As I said before, divide them in sectors according what they have to cool. Since you have liquid CPU cooler, let it be CPU cooling group with CPU temps being relevant. Other components don't always follow CPU temperatures nor heat as much nor have same temperature limits. VRM for instance can go up to 120c without problem ‚but unless is grossly under-powered it will stay cool. Chipset, another place from which MB temps are derived will heat only when you have many peripherals, definitely not according to CPU.
GPU is another group that has own settings but may depend on case cooling. If you have any case fans like for instance intake fans under it, it may be good idea to tie their speed to GPU temps. Depending on usage GPU can get quite hotter than CPU.