I fixed it
reboot and change bios init display to onboard. reboot 3 time for luck. reboot and change bios init display to PCIE. Go to device manager and uninstall onboard driver and shut down box. Install card, attach cable to card, and turn on the box. Go to device manager to validate that new card has ben recognized. Go to nVida support and down load latest driver.
Thx to veryone who took the time to read.