I thought nubbin was from Red Vs Blue, that's where I heard it first anyways, laptop humour seems unlikely for friends but perhaps. Seems you're right though, Chandler's nubbin and such. In RVB it refers to the small button mice on some laptops.
Two reviews I looked at said that the Samsung ram was indeed still rated for 1000 mhz, one claims at 1.9v) though mine runs nowhere near that high a voltage so it could be 0.9). One reviewer managed 1050 on the memory, another 1062 and adding voltage raised it by another 10mhz, so you can probably take it past 1000 but obviously every card is different.
Looking at overclocked results an 8800/9800gt can beat a 4850 so I might do some overclocking. Temperature could be a worry for me however as mine seems to run hotter than others, 66 max I think and the card has apparently got a 67 artifact threshold. Saying that, the other day mine hit almost 100 before it artefacted in a game and after a good clean it was fine.
It's probably overheating not the memory controller that causes issues for the ram as the ram isn't cooled separately, there's no heatsinks on the memory at all, just passive cooling from the main fan and any case fans you have.