xam83 :
I've done some research into this as I have the same card setup. It's because bf3 is one of the few games that uses over 1GB of video ram if x2 or x4 AA is enabled. Disable AA in the in-game options and you should be back to running close to 100 fps with everything else set to ultra. Hope this helps
thanks for the heads up xam83!
I have gtx 460 SOC SLI (ran tonight at 815/2000), did some tests in game...
the results from my tests were stunning, i wont post the details as they were not exact replicas in terms of the tests, I played a series of games, 2 rounds on each map - 64 player server, full or as near to: operation metro, seine crossing and grand bazaar, huge fire fights as you'd expect - i switched every 5 mins between ultra preset / ultra with 2xMSAA and ultra with AA disabled
the ultra pre-set @ 1920x1080, 60Hz provided what on paper looked like acceptable fps but did feel laggy,+50 fps
the ultra settings, customised with AA disabled or 2xMSAA (rather than default 4xMSAA) were amazingly fluid and a significant improvement - I couldn't tell the difference between the eye candy as I was too focused on the firefights with zero lagg, came in at mid 80s and mid 70s fps respectively
I've found my settings and would encourage 460 and 560 / 560 Ti owners, whether they are SLI or not, to play around with the AA settings in the game menu
im off to frag some more!
chaz