er.... well... ok, let's try to make this a bit more clear for people =)
It's already a multi-monitor setup, in fact the 2 monitors now are just the beginning, we're talking about multiple games across multiple monitors along with various IDE's and my own test programs written in DirectX/OpenGL, the amount of power my card needs is...... really really really high, however with my current setup, there are really only 2 cards available that I wish to get, and the price difference between the two is small (30$ at first glance, less once I call on a couple friends), so... price between the two is unimportant.
Ok, I seem to be seeing a trend... people seem to care about cost and assume I'm a rather standard user.
So... let me rephrase my question ^_^
I'd like to know people's opinions on the 4gb gtx 670 VS the gtx 680 2gb. Does the extra 2gb make up any difference in performance to make the gtx 670 4GB MORE powerful than the gtx 680 (we're ignoring price/cost)? The second consideration is longevity, will the 4gb actually work out better for games in the long run? (yes conjecture is allowed, heck it's the point of this =) or will the higher GPU power compared to >it's< ram make the gtx 680 come out on top (in terms of longevity)? I'm a person who will put a MAJOR amount of strain on even current vid cards, so even a small difference between the 2 will be very helpful for my work/education
I do apologize that my original post did not include enough information, now that I know (better) what people want I hope the updated info I posted helps =)
ALSO: for everyone who posted, please look at this:
http://www.tomshardware.com/forum/35123-12-thank-hardware-bless
essentially, everyone has been awesome and that link is a post thanking the entirety of Tom's Hardware, from me =)