Every board overclocks differently, you just have to keep trying until you find a sweet spot, I'm now at 2795 ht and 215fsb @ the same 4.4ghz cpu and games seem to be stable and very fluid, I was up to 220fsb but kept either dropping cores in p95 with default setting before 6 min mark or would cause freeze up with p95 small fft test.
The small fft test will heat your cpu up and test strictly the cpu overclock (and is likely to fail in the first 5-6mins by freezing the computer so if you can get to 7 mins or more you're fine to keep going) where the blend test stresses everything so if there is a weakness in any of your ram, cpu, northbridge, clocks or voltages the blend test will fail within the first 6 mins.
Even if it fails after this point I would still call the overclock stable because almost nothing is going to stress your cpu to that point just gaming on it, but if you're looking for other testing tools OCCT is a good one to fail quickly if your oc is too high but again it's extreme stress that is likely to cause an issue and you're unlikely to cause your cpu extreme stress under normal circumstances. I fail OCCT at just over 1min30sec.