You are right, No AA no AF on crysis/Facry 2/GTA4 ... but the way you "gurus" talk about 512 cards may give the impression to newbs that a 512 card won't work at all... which is just not true. Those games you mentioned require more than just 1GB of video ram to perform well, and the card alone will not make the difference. GTA4 actually ran really well on my PII x3 @1920x1080 once I overclocked it past 3ghz. The 4870x2 made a very small difference on GTA4, TBH. But I am sure you gurus knew that it was so CPU dependent, thats why you mentioned it in response to a video card issue.
My point still stands, making absolute statements about these sort of things is inaccurate and misleading. That sort of advice could end up reducing the playable value to someone on a budget who is not as much of a hobbyist or a self-proclaimed expert.