Look at picture 4.1.3
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There is a tab that locks connector in place. Pressing the top in from the side of the connector will cause the bottom latching part to push out releasing the latch. A small flat blade screwdriver can also assist in releasing the latch.
A P4 connector also uses the same kind of latch.