If the 3d is displaying properly then it is working.
The ghosting comes from the tv.
I had an lg plasma that had awfull ghosting issues and switched to a samsung and the ghosing is almost non existent!
Power dvd can playback 3d in a side by side format (sbs) from a blu ray to a 3d tv. (a 3d tv works differently to a 3d monitor)
Vlc player can also play back 3d in an SBS format but not from a blu ray disc.
hope this helps