I have AT&T wireless, Direct TV, and Exceed Internet in zip code 78962 and am spending a fortune - any way to bundle or bypass

Your post and question is too broad

Forum rules prohibit help with "bypassing" or otherwise circumventing ISP services.

Your zipcode indicates the Wiemar, Texas, USA area.

All you can truly do is to negotiate with the local service providers.

This forum, per the rules, cannot help you avoid being "held up".