Question is there a rgb controller/hub that works with all brands of 4 pin

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My first assumption is no. Some of the RGB setups out there run on 12V and some on 5V. And Gigabyte, at least, likes their RGBW.

I wouldn't put it past someone to make an autodetecting RGB controller, but it would be a significant expense and not terribly sought after. Once you buy into an ecosystem best to stick with it. (Which is exactly why they didn't all get together and just make a standard)