Have you overclocked the card?
I have and it performs great once overclocked. I bought it over a month ago and felt the same way at one point, but overclocking it changed my mind. Its real easy with AfterBurner.
currently have it overclocked to the following:
970 core
1940 shader
2150 mem
People say its the same card as the 460 are incorrect by a mile and a half...
Overclocked, it performs as well as a Ti (MSI twin frozr version), take a look here
http://www.overclockers.com.au/article.php?id=959736&P=2
Also, I have vids up of Bad Company 2 maxed and Crysis 2 maxed with Blackfire mod, performance is also there in video notes...
Bad Company 2
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KAIo2wAugTI
Crysis 2 BlackFire mod
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YoColCztWMs
Pics to Benchmarks
http://www.flickr.com/photos/67576864@N08/
my specs are
AMD Phenom X4 3.0 Deneb (stock)
4Gigs of Ram DDR2 @800
MSI Twin Frozr ii 560 GTX non ti
Note that my processor is stock and im sure its taking a few frames away from me...need better cooling for it. At the time I got it for 180 after MIR while the cheapest ti was 220 after MIR..saved myself 40 bucks..
Hope this helps!