OK. Perhaps you can tell us which high end CPU (should include GPU as well) has modest power consumption?
Regarding cooling and board. Who pairs a budget cooler and board with a 5950x or 12900K?? Do you see people buying A520 boards for 5950x? Do you see pple buying H610 boards for 12900K? EVen if there are, its extremely rare and not typical of end-user scenario.
If you are talking about processors that needs to have specific power/thermal limits, there are such processors from both camps. Eg. 35W 'T' variants, laptops have 'H' series around 45W, then 'U' series 15-25W etc...of course, they aren't flagship processors with lots of cores.