The REMOTES should be identical.
I see no SOFTWARE so the lights seem to require the remote to talk directly to the LED hardware interface thus requiring the remote.
Apparently there are some ASUS boards with specific headers to connect these strips to, and if you had one of those I suspect the motherboard site has software to change settings from Windows.
But otherwise I'd say get a new remote or kit with remote, or different strips that work via USB or similar that can also have software.