Of course it's legal, i'm just fighting terrorism (national security and stuff).
Anyways, I'm such an idiot. In my software that I use for capturing there is an alarm option, but it didn't work and I didn't know why it didn't work and it didn't work because this software recognizes MAC addresses in format aa:bb:cc:dd:ee:ff and I was typing it in this format aa-bb-cc-dd-ee-ff (it was like that in my router so I just copy/pasted) and now when I changed it works fine (there are some advanced alarms too)!
The problem is for some reason i have to reassociate the node in order for it to decrypt the packets, so I have to do it manually when the person gets connected. If I turn it on to just automatically capture everything will stay encrypted.
Anyways, I did it, mission accomplished, sayonara, cha cha, goodbye, love you mom!