gott :
Can someone explain to me how much having more memory affects gaming and some of the benefits that result from having more memory?
It's an old analogy, but still pretty good:
Processor is like the guy/gal sitting in the chair - It's what's doing the work.
Memory is like the top of your desk: The more (area) you have, the more things you have (open) at your fingertips to be worked on.
If you run out of room on top of the desk, you have to put it somewhere: This is what the Hard Drive is for. It's the "File Cabinet" where your computer stores things that aren't being worked on.
So - If you don't have "enough" RAM, your computer has to constantly take things out of and put things into storage as you work.
("Paging" - and yes, that's why it's called a 'Page File') If this is happening, then you can and will benefit from having more memory.