Question Memory not Working w/MB

Mar 5, 2019
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I'm building a PC for the first time...

Anyhow, I bought

CORSAIR Vengeance LPX 16GB (2 x 8GB) 288-Pin DDR4 SDRAM DDR4 3000 (PC4 24000) Memory Kit Model CMK16GX4M2B3000C15

which is on the QVL list for my motherboard I also got which is

Asus X470-f gaming ..

It wouldn't post with the ram and indicated a problem with the ram so I borrowed my brother's DDR4 (2133mhz) and booted the PC and updated the BIOS to the it's current version which I hoped would fix the problem but didn't.

So, my question is, is the ram bad or the board just not cooperating? Should I get different ram and stay away from 3000mhz or what? I'm at a lost and with it being my first build I'm kind of annoyed as well.