Who said that? I highly doubt it, I run my memory at 1.35v, have since about a month after kaby lake came out and everything is fine. There are kits that run at 1.4v without issue, hardcore overclokers push 1.5v or more and it doesn't kill the memory controller. So I doubt 1.35v is going to "greatly decrease the lifespan of your integrated memory controller". I guess we will find out in a year or so if everybody's skylake/kaby lake memory controllers start dying out of the blue, since most kits advertised at 3000mhz+ are using 1.35v or more.