I think you are good.
If you want to test for stability,
Run memtest86 or memtest86+
They boot from a usb stick and do not use windows.
You can download them here:
MemTest86 is the original self booting memory testing software for x86 and ARM computers. Supporting both BIOS and UEFI, with options to boot from USB.
www.memtest86.com
Memtest86+ is an advanced, free, open-source, stand-alone memory tester for 32- and 64-bit computers (UEFI & BIOS supported)
www.memtest.org
If you can run a full pass with NO errors, your ram should be ok.
Running several more passes will sometimes uncover an issue, but it takes more time.
Probably not worth it unless you really suspect a ram issue.
XMP is a set of ram settings embedded within the ram stick.
It specifies several profiles for different speeds and timings.
It should be no surprise that two different kits would have different xmp profiles, resulting in confusion and defaulting to minimum specs.
I think XMP is an intel term, but amd calls it something different.
By specifying speed ,voltage and other specs you have avoided such confusion.