Honestly..... really..... it just boils down to human stupidity on NVidias part. It might as well be criminal negligence at this point. You have billions of dollars and you pay high-profile engineers and electricians millions of dollars to build your product, and you still fail grade 9 electricity. der8auer's and buildzoid's videos from February explain this thoroughly. When you have multiple wires powering a device.... THEY ABSOLUTELY UNEQUIVOCALLY MUST BE CURRENT BALANCED. If they are not current balanced, they will melt. You learn this is grade 9 electricity. But it's okay, leave it to a $2.4T company to fail grade 9 electricity.
Our trusty 8-pin connector almost never melted because it was way under-specced, and they were current balanced on the board. If your connector is designed in such a way that it will melt if it's out of place by 1/10th of a millimeter, your connector is garbage. I have said it for years and I will say it again: NVidia, blaming the user isn't going to fix the problem. Acknowledge your mistake, own it, and fix it. I'd hate to see how many 4090 and 5090 owners have melted connectors and don't even know it yet.
Have you ever noticed there were almost never any reports of 3090Ti's melting (450W TDP like the 4090, 12VHPWR connector)? I wonder why that could be? Again.... buildzoids video..... The 3090Ti was FORCED to be current balanced so that if any wires were carrying too much load, the card would not work, thus, no melting. 3090Ti's current balanced. 4090s and 5090s just don't. Instead, they melt, and they will keep melting..... and melting..... and melting..... until either a class action lawsuit or a recall.
Honestly, if I were handed a 5090 for free on a silver platter, I wouldn't take it. No joke. Why? Because I'd be too scared of it melting. I do rendering and leave my GPU overnight on full load rendering. I'm not interested in being woken up by the smell of burnt plastic. It's not a chance I'd be willing to take. It shouldn't be that way. People shouldn't have to abstain from getting a consumer product due to fear of a fire. That shouldn't be the case with any consumer product. If it's not safe, its not safe. Time for a recall/class action lawsuit.