From what i read around the internet you aren't the only one with that problem, it seems any time you add 4Gb of memory into your motherboard the audio device won't work, this motherboard seems to work fine with 3Gb but not with 4Gb, i really don't understand why.
Examples:
http://forum-en.msi.com/index.php?topic=116747.0
http://www.tomshardware.com/forum/12861-63-k9vgm-onboard-audio-dissapered
i guess you will have to stay with 3Gb of memory for the time being until you can get a new motherboard, you could try to re-install windows just to be sure but from what i saw i don't think that will solve your issue.