This is logically false, there a a few youtube videos where they DEMONSTRATED that the connector, with the latch in placed, with a bit of wiggling force, can have sides yanked out enough to the melting mark point, and ppl cable manage and pull on connectors all the time is enough of a proof that at least contribute to some of the melting cases, as your original arguement, if it can go wrong, it will eventually go wrong. Of course after it have been melted you can never determine whether it is pulled out after properly inserting the plug, or just bad insertion in the first place, the melt occurs when it is at bad contact.