WOW. What's the freakin' odds of #2!? I totally pulled #2 out of my a&& right when I was about to hit post reply! I'm glad you got it straightened out and got what you needed. It sucks that you had to learn this lesson the hard way. I usually can avoid these problems because when I buy a new machine, I pretty much replace everything and sell the old system as a whole with the OS and all. So my 'new' system always has the latest of everything so I don't have to worry about backwards compatibility. O the advantages of being able to blow money on your hobby 😛.
Asus once got me good. They had a motherboard that had just come out at the time with RAID-5 on the motherboard. I wanted RAID-5, but the software RAID-5 for Windows has terrible write performance, and a RAID-5 controller was expensive. But wait! Asus has a motherboard with RAID-5 built in! Great... O wait.. no it's not! Big fat lie. You get it in the mail and surprise surprise, it's a software RAID-5. They use the EXACT same dll's Microsoft used for their RAID-5. I was like "OMG.. what exactly are you selling me if you're basically just saying your selling me a motherboard that supports Windows' built in functionality?" And I paid $60 to get the 'deluxe' version because of the RAID-5 feature. I wasn't too happy, but nowhere in the manual did it say it actually is a software RAID-5. You had to be thoroughly familiar with RAID controller technology and know that hardware RAID-5 will be set up in a BIOS, and software would be set up in Windows. The manual for setting up the RAID-5 says "Step 1. Boot into your Windows XP/2000 OS". I was not thrilled that they did this. They never fixed the manual either.
Once again I am totally impressed with Newegg. Not the cheapest, but there's a VERY BIG piece of mind if you screw up. Once again I'm not overly impressed with ASUS's customer support and manual writing department. So which motherboard will I be buying in 2 months for my new machine? An ASUS most likely. LOL. Now i'm smart enough to know what games they are playing and I won't waste my time on one of their games again.