That is something different. The antenna to the neighbors house both transmits and receives not just receives.
You would have been much better off not buying a stupid antenna. You could have gotten a outdoor bridge for about the same price as just the antenna and you could have hooked it to a AP in your house.
That is still the simplest solution if you are willing to start over.
You might be able to hook the antenna to a repeater/extender. Many have multiple antenna so you could just replace 1. It will not be optimum but it should work.
You might be able to get ICS to work with 2 wifi nics but you have now converted you expensive pc into a stupid repeater. You have to be very careful what you would run on your pc when...