How many modules do you have installed? Are they installed in the A2 and B2 slots, which are the 2nd and 4th slots over from the CPU socket?
If they are NOT in those slots, they need to be. Also, as Lutfij has already indicated, make sure you are on the latest bios version for your motherboard before even bothering with trying to get DOCP enabled.
Also, after you make sure they are in the right slots and that you are on the latest bios version, try using only one module in the A2 slot with DOCP enabled. If it WILL run that way, then try bumping the DRAM voltage up minimally and then save settings, shut down, install the other stick and try to see if it will boot again.