Hello, this is my first post here. Because my question involves both CPU and MOBO (and chipset), I decided that I would first try here as this board should accommodate all of them. I know this question has been asked before, but I do not feel that other threads will help me (I really don't want to screw this up and when I think about it, there's so many choices). In short, I want to build a budget gaming computer (between 500-700 dollars I suppose) but I cannot decide what to go with. I know that fully future proofing is impossible but I want to start with what can hopefully be upgraded when the time comes. I don't know much, but let me try and put down the things that are preventing me from choosing one or the other.
-In the system builder marathon, the June $500 gaming pc with the i3-2100 beat the overclocked 925 from Match. However, the 955BE is now on par with the i3-2100 in prices and I haven't found any benchmarks here comparing them really (although anandtech went mostly in favor to the i3-2100 compared to what I think is a stock 955BE). The faster at gaming i3-2100 beat the 925 oc'ed at games which I care more about but I am really unsure as to how it can stand against an oc'ed 955BE (especially since it has a better fan). The 925 oc'ed was able to beat the i3-2100 at non gaming stuff with it's 4 physical cores so the 955 will surely beat the i3-2100 more but will it be on par with gaming? Comments in the articles I read give such conflicting advice, for instance, one of the editors said that the 925 oc'ed was so close in performance to the 955BE but that doesn't really make sense since I've heard so much about how much further you can push the 955. Also, the i3-2100 takes less power than the 955BE meaning cheaper to run, can power more with same/less PSU, most likely cooler due to being a newer chip. (although I could definitely be wrong)
- If I go with the phenom, I get a much better feature packed mobo (at least with AM3, I am not too sure about AM3+ for the same price although I will want this for upgrading) with much better I/O and the works compared to what I get with LGA 1155 for the same price. If I go with the Intel, I get much less features although I would probably not be using them. The LGA 1155 chipsets also confuse me. The cheap ones they used for the i3-2100 in the SBM was the H61 and I think I read that you can just put a i5 or i7 in it but all the crazy differences between p67 and whichever the other few are (with regards to gpu/mobo overclocking) make it unclear if I will be able to use the same mobo for upgrading the intel when the time comes. Would it be better to spend more on a p67 for later? If I go with the AM3+, I can upgrade to bulldozer and it sounds like the motherboard would be able to stay no matter what. However, I have no idea really about bulldozer, how much it is going to cost and how powerful it will be. I should probably research that.
It looks like I've already made quite a wall of text but I think I summed up the dilemma I face. Do I get an i3 and either a low end or high end mobo and upgrade later? (by the way, will sandy bridge mobos support ivy bridge?) or do I get a Phenom and upgrade later? Most of what I've read is that the i3 has better speed in what I intend to use it for but I don't know about the motherboard being all that good. BTW, I will most likely be pairing these with a 6850 and maybe a 6870 if I have the budget but that is doubtful. I do not really plan on getting a 2nd one although it would be a plus to have that option. I would not really want to overclock the cpu/gpu ideally but apparently it's easy as cake and safe/encouraged. They both sound like they have their advantages and disadvantages and I can't choose. PLEASE HELP ME
I know this has been probably a very long read so I sincerely thank you if you took the time to read it and I will be ever so grateful if you decide to bless me with an answer. Thanks again.
-In the system builder marathon, the June $500 gaming pc with the i3-2100 beat the overclocked 925 from Match. However, the 955BE is now on par with the i3-2100 in prices and I haven't found any benchmarks here comparing them really (although anandtech went mostly in favor to the i3-2100 compared to what I think is a stock 955BE). The faster at gaming i3-2100 beat the 925 oc'ed at games which I care more about but I am really unsure as to how it can stand against an oc'ed 955BE (especially since it has a better fan). The 925 oc'ed was able to beat the i3-2100 at non gaming stuff with it's 4 physical cores so the 955 will surely beat the i3-2100 more but will it be on par with gaming? Comments in the articles I read give such conflicting advice, for instance, one of the editors said that the 925 oc'ed was so close in performance to the 955BE but that doesn't really make sense since I've heard so much about how much further you can push the 955. Also, the i3-2100 takes less power than the 955BE meaning cheaper to run, can power more with same/less PSU, most likely cooler due to being a newer chip. (although I could definitely be wrong)
- If I go with the phenom, I get a much better feature packed mobo (at least with AM3, I am not too sure about AM3+ for the same price although I will want this for upgrading) with much better I/O and the works compared to what I get with LGA 1155 for the same price. If I go with the Intel, I get much less features although I would probably not be using them. The LGA 1155 chipsets also confuse me. The cheap ones they used for the i3-2100 in the SBM was the H61 and I think I read that you can just put a i5 or i7 in it but all the crazy differences between p67 and whichever the other few are (with regards to gpu/mobo overclocking) make it unclear if I will be able to use the same mobo for upgrading the intel when the time comes. Would it be better to spend more on a p67 for later? If I go with the AM3+, I can upgrade to bulldozer and it sounds like the motherboard would be able to stay no matter what. However, I have no idea really about bulldozer, how much it is going to cost and how powerful it will be. I should probably research that.
It looks like I've already made quite a wall of text but I think I summed up the dilemma I face. Do I get an i3 and either a low end or high end mobo and upgrade later? (by the way, will sandy bridge mobos support ivy bridge?) or do I get a Phenom and upgrade later? Most of what I've read is that the i3 has better speed in what I intend to use it for but I don't know about the motherboard being all that good. BTW, I will most likely be pairing these with a 6850 and maybe a 6870 if I have the budget but that is doubtful. I do not really plan on getting a 2nd one although it would be a plus to have that option. I would not really want to overclock the cpu/gpu ideally but apparently it's easy as cake and safe/encouraged. They both sound like they have their advantages and disadvantages and I can't choose. PLEASE HELP ME
I know this has been probably a very long read so I sincerely thank you if you took the time to read it and I will be ever so grateful if you decide to bless me with an answer. Thanks again.

