What is the make/model of your motherboard and psu?
Why not list all of your prospective parts for review.
What will be the main use for this pc?
The aux 4 pin motherboard connector is needed for extra power for overclocking or additional graphics cards.
Normally, one does not need to have it connected.
To be certain, download the user manual for the motherboard.
It should tell you under what conditions the added 4pin power is needed.
I might add that modern graphics cards like the 3060 can draw power spikes that exceed what the nominal power that the card requires. I would buy a psu in the 750w range, possibly higher if you anticipate a stronger graphics card in the future.
The 11600K can certainly use a stronger card in fps games or at higher resolutions.
A psu will only draw the power demanded of it, regardless of the max capability.