I got the GPU today, a week later because TNT lost it. But I got it.
Now, I have plugged everything, started it up, and the PC would cut the power as soon it reached POST. After playing around for an hour, I figured out that the PC couden't start because it couden't recognize the GPU, which is strange, so I put in my old GPU back in, downloaded the latest drivers & MSI Afterburner (even tho the 750Ti came with the driver & MSI afterburner dics but it was useless since it wouden't go past post), it has fixed the issue, but then, as soon I reached the "Starting Windows" screen, the PC would freeze with a stastic noise, after more digging around, I figured out that in BIOS, you have to disable that if a the PC can't find a GPU in PCIe, it would start with intergrated GPU, after looking in logs, it turned out that the BIOS would start the PC with the 750Ti, but then tried to overide it with intergrated GPU and it would crash the system (strange as I never used intergrated GPU, always a GPU inside the PCIe and never had this issue) so I fixed it by turning off the option that the PC would start with intergrated graphics if there's no GPU in PCIe. After waiting about 10 minutes for the drivers to install so I don't have 600x800 resolution, I had to restart the PC, everything was fine, after the restart the resolution was fine, I started off by opening a YouTube video to put small stress on the GPU, as soon it would load the video, the PC would cut off power (at first I though it was a faulty brand new PSU, but after looking in the logs, it turned out that the PC would cut off power because it had "Power saving" enabled in the BIOS and with the stock PSU, it would lower the wattage but since I no longer run the stock PSU, it just dosen't know what to do so it cuts off the power complety, I fixed it by turning off "Power saving". So far everything has been working fine after that chaos. Now I understand why people don't put GPU bigger than GT 730 inside Optiplex 960 or atleast small form factors, because they cause a lot of issues. I will run a benchmark on the GPU in couple of hours after it gets a small use as I just got it working and don't want to instanly put max load on it as soon it came out of the box. I have put the fans on max speed (you will know why after looking on the pictures) I have taken few picture of how the setup looks so far. It's very haggard and doggy, but I'm waiting for my friend to comeback from his holiday so he can borrow me his dremel so I can cut an inch of plastic from the GPU to make it fit over 2 capacitors. For now it works fine.
Yes indeed, that's the GPU upside down on top of the ram, with the ribbon cable supported by a cardboard square so the GPU dosen't collapse on top of the ram. After taking the picture, I put one fan behind the PC so it can get cold air and one inside the case to suck the warm air out so it dosen't warm up the ram.
That is the back, all the cables coming out thru a hole where the stock PSu used to be, the EVGA 430W PSu dosen't fit inside in anyway so it has to be outside, the GPU has a big hole to suck in the air (where I have put a fan by), by doing simple task, it's an normal temptures so no issues with this yet.
The max watt I have reached so far is 19W on the GPU, I haven't passed the questionable 35W, I will when the I will run he benchmark and that's when the truth will come out.