You've got several things working against you.
1). 4 sticks of RAM
2). AMD CPU
3). Vengeance RAM
Many systems (AMD & Intel) require lower memory clock speeds to remain stable if 4 DIMMs are fitted instead of 2. You can often overclock 2 DIMMs significantly faster than 4 DIMMs.
AMD CPUs tend to run at lower XMP overclocks than Intel CPUs. 6400MT/s might work on AMD with 2 DIMMs, but I'm not surprised you can't achieve 6400MT/s with 4 DIMMs.
Some people dislike Corsair Vengeance RAM for a number of reasons (try a search on Tom's).
Be thankful you can run 128GB Vengeance at 4800MT/s. Some mobo/CPU combinations have to be clocked slower than 4800MT/s with 4 sticks, e.g. 4200 or 3800MT/s are sometimes recommended.
If you bought two pairs of DIMMs, instead of a single kit containing 4 matched DIMMs, the two pairs will probably not be from the same batch or bin. The resulting small differences between each pair can reduce stability at higher speeds. Even if both pairs have exactly the same part number, this does not mean they're precisely matched.
I'm running a 7950X with 2 Kingston 32GB DDR5 DIMMs (64GB) at stock 4800MT/s.
I have 4 Vengeance 16GB DDR4 DIMMs (64GB) set to 3000MT/s on a 3800X.
Some apps don't benefit much from XMP overclocks, especially on AMD systems.
https://www.pugetsystems.com/labs/a...023-update/#Video_Editing_and_Motion_Graphics