Wow, I don't know what chipset you have, but 1.62V on the northbridge is pretty high for most chips!
You probably need a higher voltage on the CPU, but the best way to find out is to test the stability of your MCH at a higher FSB frequency. So: set your CPU multiplier down to 6, and your FSB frequency to 425. Don't touch your CPU voltage... just leave it alone for the moment... Try booting. If this doesn't boot, then your northbridge is at fault, and at that high a voltage, it's probably overheating.
If you can boot at 425, run a stability test with Prime95 blend for a few hours. If that is stable, increase the FSB frequency again. Remember to keep your memory set to 1:1, so at FSB 425, it should be running at 850. This will help to eliminate the RAM as the culprit.
Keep doing this to get to higher FSBs. You could try an FSB frequency of 450MHz off the bat and see how that goes... maybe it'll work, then you'll know the CPU is at fault.
There are also other reasons why you may not have a stable setting, like having the tRD value set too low, but that's really a more advanced setting, and you should probably just try what I've outlined above first...
Edit: I almost forgot... when you reach a stable FSB that you like, you can up your CPU multiplier again, and then work to get the CPU stable by increasing the voltage. Remember that 1.3625V is the highest voltage for the Q9450 specified by Intel. You can take the chip higher, but it's likely to degrade its operating lifespan significantly, not to mention produce a lot of heat!