I've done a few "quiet" builds using the Be Quiet CPU air coolers and they have great performance and run silent. Noctua also makes great quiet coolers.
- Be Quiet Dark Rock Pro 3
- Be Quiet Pure Rock (150W) (smaller) (I use this cooler myself)
- Noctua NH-D15
- Noctua NH-D14
The bigger the cooler, the slower and quieter the fans are. These can handle overclocking as well. Big air coolers outlast AIO liquid coolers and offer performance just as good.