I personally would get the 3600MHz kit... I'm not sure how PROFILES work if the CPU isn't compatible with that high of a frequency but you should look for a PROFILE first and try to apply it rather than mess with all manual settings.
Most memory kits have several PROFILES available for you to select. Make sure your BIOS is up to date as that's how they get added.
Depending on the motherboard you may just see a recommended 3000MHz profile as the best choice. I'm guessing though.
Once you do that run MEMTEST86 for a full pass www.memtest86.com
NOW CAS LATENCY matters too. If that 3600MHz kit doesn't have a relatively low CL value don't get it... UPDATE: it's hard to know what the CAS value is at 3000MHz for a 3600MHz kit but I'd...