Ram is sold in kits for a reason.
A motherboard must manage all the ram using the same specs of voltage, cas and speed.
Ram from the same vendor and part number can be made up of differing manufacturing components over time.
Some motherboards can be very sensitive to this.
That is why ram vendors will NOT support ram that is not bought in one kit.
For games, 8gb is enough.
If you think you might ever want 16gb, buy a 2 x 8gb kit and sell your 4gb or keep it as a spare.
I might buy a single 8gb stick that matches your 4gb stick as to voltage, cas and speed.
You will be assured of the 8gb you want. Then try adding your old 4gb stick. If it works, you will have 12gb, 8 of which will be running in dual channel mode.
If it does not...