i understand , like I said I would atleast go with something on the vendors list like I posted from Kingston that way they back it up as will work and tested by them so there should be no issue [out side a defective kit] ..
with that if the same issue pops up then you can look at something else as a cause
one more thing may re check the cpu in the socket to insure you did not get bent pins or if using a aftermarket cpu cooler that not ''push pin'' mounted sometimes if mounted too tight or crooked / what ever can put stress on the board and cause these type of issues as well ..
make sure [I assume you did ] that the sticks are set properly and firm in there slots don't think I never had to reseat something 2 or 3 times to insure it was right andf making all proper contact in there slots ..
g skill has a lot listed for that board
http://www.gskill.com/en/configurator?manu=57&chip=619&model=1265
these are cheap and a seemingly safe bet to use
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16820231422
you can see what I was saying above kinda from the Manufacturer Response in one of the bad reviews from newegg
'' This is a double sided memory that is compatible with most DDR3 computers. Especially older chip set platforms such as Intel G41, P55, H55, etc., this may be the only new 4GB memory modules available on the market for upgrade.''
your board is newer but maybe ''border line'' ???
good luck