Thank got I didn't give up like a little , I got the RAM to go up to 1600mhz, a friend gave me some pointers and it worked!
Yes mate,I swear to god I did a build with that same board the week before xmas using corsair dominator 1600mhz cl9.
give me 5 minutes ,im flicking through the manual i still have now
back quicker than expected
the ram will install at 1333 by default ,get your windows install & everything else done
download & install cpu-z
http://www.cpuid.com/downloads/cpu-z/1.71.1-setup-en.ex...
run it
goto the spd tab
1.copy the info from the 1600mhz profile EXACTLY as it reads
IF the voltage tab from the 666mhz (to the left of the one ive highlighted) then you dont need to write this the voltage down
some ram sticks run at 1.5v across all speeds,others require 1.65v at the higer speed
2.shutdown pc,boot to bios
3.open the M.I.T tab in bios
goto set memory clock (outlined in yellow) - change it to x8.00
goto dram configuration (outlined in red) - press enter
extra tabs will now come up coinciding with the timing/latency tabs you wrote down from cpu-z
enter the readings that you have written down precisely - correct tab for each option
If the voltage differed in step 1 between the two tabs then go down to system voltage control (highlighted green) & change it to manual
this will open the options below
goto the ddr3 voltage tab (highlighted blue) & change it to your required voltage
save & exit bios
reboot
run cpu-z
open memory tab
your ram should now read as 1600mhz,dual channel in top right box as below
& it honestly sounds much more complicated written down ,than it actually is.
apols - messed up the thumbnails - now working